What I Want You to Know:
The more open we are as individuals, the more conversation occurs, and the more information spreads.
Why I think it's important to challenge HIV/AIDS stereotypes:
Health classes teach about modes of contraction, history of the disease, etc., but they do not necessarily discuss stereotypes or how individuals and relationships are affected by HIV/AIDS. I realize controversial and scary issues are difficult to talk about, especially during the years when insecurities, vulnerabilities, and confusion are all too common. However, we have to talk. It can get easier, if openness and listening and facing this stuff become the norm. I hope that if young people see other young people on the web, or on TV talking out, being compassionate, and breaking a stereotype, they will feel like it's something they can do also. This generation has it harder than ever, so we should be open and support and protect each other.
Have I ever been tested for HIV?
Yes, I have been tested for HIV, first because I want to know that my HIV status is negative, not just assume. Secondly, if I have the personal standard to require the HIV status of someone I choose to be intimate with, of course I have to be sure of my own status, and give that person the same assurance. Everyone needs to take responsibility.